Groom says he was overwhelmed by the support. • "The owners of the venue said they cannot remember such joy at an event that took place there. It was amazing. There was no room for more people. We saw the people of Israel in all their glory," he says.
About 1,000 people attended the wedding of a Charedi couple that had been boycotted by their community due to the groom's decision to enlist in the IDF. The guests -- who did not know the couple personally -- arrived in response to a post that appeared on the Israel Hayom Facebook page, after the newspaper learned that only about 30 guests had shown up to the event to which hundreds had been invited.
The couple got married Thursday evening at the Bella Vida banquet hall in Ashdod. After confirming with the venue management that invitees appeared to be boycotting the wedding, a post describing the situation was published on Facebook, prompting strangers to come and support and cheer the couple.
"At first, I didn't know what was happening," said the groom, Yitzhak. "I didn’t know that people hadn't arrived. I was inside one of the rooms before the chuppah, and then someone came in and said that there weren't many guests. I didn't get worked up, because I knew that I wasn't allowed to be sad on my wedding day. I simply asked if there was a minyan [the quorum of 10 men required for prayer services]. When I understood that there were 10 men, I said it would be all right. God would be with me and cheer me up, and that's what happened."
As time passed, hundreds of people who did not know the couple began to arrive. Yitzhak said he was surprised by the sudden crowd: "I don't know how it got out of the venue or how it reached the media, but I'm glad that it happened. At the end of the day, about 1,000 people came.
"The owners of the venue said they couldn't remember such joy at an event that took place there. It was amazing. There was no room for more people. We saw the people of Israel in all their glory."
He went on to say, "I assume that the [invited] guests didn't come because I enlisted in the army. I enlisted into haredi service [meant to accommodate ultra-Orthodox soldiers], and the community in which I grew up decided to boycott me. It's important not to tarnish all haredim; this is a very specific [part of the] community and I'm very hurt by them. The minimum that I expected from them was to come embrace me on my wedding day. The food was appropriately kosher; the wedding took place with separation between women and men -- I simply joined the army and this is how I was treated. I'm not rebelling or withdrawing from religion, I have remained haredi."