The Haftarah we read this week — according to Ashkenazic tradition — is taken from the Prophet Hoshea. The last nine verses of our Haftarah are the famous opening statement we recite on Shabbos Shuva, prior to Yom Kippur, which summons us to repent. שובה ישראל — Return, O Israel to Hashem, your G-d, for you have stumbled through your iniquity. (הושע יד ב-י)

We are taught that the very first Baal Teshuva in history, was Reuven, who was taken to task for impetuously moving the bed of his father Yaakov — which Yaakov had placed into the tent of her maidservant Bilhah after the death of Rachel — into the tent of his mother Leah. He repented, donning sackcloth, and fasting to atone for his error. In merit of his 'initiating' the notion of Teshuva, the Midrash adds, his descendant, the Prophet Hoshea will give the opening summons to the Jewish people to repent their ways.

Usually, the Haftarah that is read has some connection to the portion of the week. The episode with Reuven though first appears in next week's reading.

Reuven, the 'Bchor' — the Firstborn of Yaakov, is thus named because Leah exclaimed when meriting to birth the first child of Yaakov — despite feeling shunned by her husband's stronger affection for her sister Rachel — because ראה ד' בעניי — G-d has discerned my humiliation, for now my husband will love me. (בראשית כט לב) 

Rashi quotes the Talmud that gives an alternate meaning to his name.

She prophetically uttered, ראו בני — "See the difference between my son and Esav, the son of my father-in-law. Esav despised the birthright and sold it contemptuously to Yaakov — and then vowed to kill him! But Reuven lost his cherished birthright to Yosef, and not only did not hate him, but he also tried to save his life."

Are these simply two distinct sentiments or might they be two sides of the same coin?

Is this second reason the sole distinction between these two — murderous Esav and empathic Reuven?

What the Talmud underlines is the two very different approaches to perceiving the circumstances of our lives.

Esav who is thus named since עשו breaks down to a contraction of ע-שו, the ע, the first letter of the word עולם — world, and שו[א] — falsehood. This one lives in a delusional world of lies. (בראשית רבה סג יב)

Esav sees fault in everyone but himself, blaming Yaakov and his mother. He is incapable of not only seeing the reality of his own weakness but refuses to entertain the guiding hand of providence — G-d — in all events and personal circumstances.

Reuven, despite his failure, blames only himself, with no resentment whatsoever, quickly getting back on track seeking to align his reactions more closely with the exact will of G-d.

Reuven lives the legacy of his father Yaakov, the embodiment of אמת — truth, and nothing but the truth.

The numerical value of יעקב plus ראובן equals אמת!

In truth, it was his mother Leah, who first introduces this notion of a benevolent G-d who orchestrates, with unparalleled precision, the prescribed doses we need of דין — exacting judgment, and רחמים — compassion, that will keep us tethered to the true reality that exists beyond our ken.

It begins with a mother who recognized that G-d 'discerns' our affliction and provides us the measures of compassion we need to allay our pain, broadening our perception of His loving devotion.

Reuven absorbed this lesson deeply within his soul, and despite having floundered time and again — the manipulating the bed of his mother; his not fully requited attempt to save Yosef and bring him home; his 'foolishly' offering a guarantee to slay his two sons if he fails to retrieve Binyamin from Egypt — he submits with nary a complaint, and surges forward despite the consequences of lost opportunities in seeking his 'truth'.

Maimonides writes in the Laws of Teshuva (6-4):

This is what is implied in the requests of the righteous and the prophets in their prayers, [asking] God to help them on the path of אמת — truth, as David pleaded "G-d, show me Your way that I may walk in Your אמת — truth;" i.e., do not let my sins prevent me from [reaching] the path of אמת — truth which will lead me to appreciate Your way and the oneness of Your name.

True Teshuvah is not only about correcting sins per se. It is about finding the most direct path to G-d, discovering deeper layers of truth, reality, and closeness to Hashem.

The Midrash tells us regarding Reuven, מעולם לא חטא אדם לפני ועשה תשובה — No one ever sinned before me and did Teshuva before him.

We know though that Kayin and Adam both repented.

We must translate it slightly differently with a major implication.

מעולם — Never, לא חטא אדם לפני — did a man 'not commit a sin' before me, ועשה תשובה — yet repented [despite never technically sinning]!

The Talmud says that whoever claims Reuven sinned is gravely mistaken.

The call of the prophet, שובה ישראל — Return, O Israel, is G-d beckoning us to come ever closer, עד י-ה-ו-ה — until the G-d of compassion, אלוקיך — Who is also the G-d of Judgment, who instructively often entwines the two for our ultimate betterment.

It all began with his father Yaakov's pursuit of absolute truth, continued with his mother's recognition of G-d discerning our pain, and evolves into the firstborn child, Reuven, who initiates the notion of pursuing the truth through the morass of failure and struggle — even though we might be innocent — but have yet to fully return.

The world is displaying its inability to see truth, blinded by selfishness and an unwillingness to change.

It is incumbent upon us to bring it all home!

באהבה,

צבי יהודה טייכמאן