Baltimore, MD – October 20, 2026 - Outnumbered. That's how I felt when I covered Baltimore's inaugural Agra D’Pirka event on September 1, 2018, at Khal Ahavas Yisroel Tzemach Tzedek (KAYTT). It was a sea of men, of all ages, stages, professions, and hashkafos, and me. That feeling only intensified when my coverage of subsequent Agra D’Pirka Yarchei Kallah programs had me sitting alone behind the mechitza, writing notes, then scrambling to snap photos and collect participants' quotes at their conclusion.

But then, on November 24, 2019, with the encouragement of Agra D’Pirka founder Reb Ezra Klein, I made the trip to Tiferes Rivka Hall in Boro Park to cover the organization's very b'kovodik gala Decade Dinner. There, I met the n'shei chayil, the great women behind the great men, who also attended. For the first time, I gathered their quotes, too, and heard repeatedly how their husbands' learning permeated their homes and families. The newfound daily meaning and purpose Agra D’Pirka provided was immeasurable. For many, it also added a much-needed social dimension, giving them chiyus.

Fast forward. I have since become a "kollel wife," and my appreciation of Agra D’Pirka and its successful $600,000 CauseMatch fundraising campaign is perhaps even greater. I now more fully understand the mesiras nefesh of a kollel couple, in addition to what it takes to make such an ambitious nationwide program successful. And instead of feeling like an outnumbered outsider, Agra D’Pirka now feels like family, with Rabbonim, Maggidei Shiur, and participants graciously accommodating me under the tightest deadlines and at the most inconvenient times.

I personally participated in the campaign with this feeling of "family." I couldn't help checking the online contributions repeatedly, just about every hour I was awake. The nail-biting finish, as the campaign crossed the finish line and exceeded $600,000, was more exciting than any close race on election night!

May the heilige neshamah of Reb Ezra's mother, Pirka, a”h, in whose memory Agra D’Pirka was founded, have a higher and higher aliyah with each new Agra D’Pirka kollel member who joins and, iy”H, with each new nationwide location that opens, thanks to the tremendous Siyata D’Shmaya of the CauseMatch campaign!