Baltimore, MD - Feb. 27, 2025 - The following letter was written last year by Mr. Louis Cuevas, about his impressions of the Lakewood Cheder and the community at large.
Last year, just after the Hamas-led attacks in Israel, I began working for IronRock Security. My employer placed me at the Lakewood Cheder School. On my first day, I discovered that our school was the largest boys' school in the U.S.—a pretty daunting task in an unfamiliar environment. But it didn’t take long for me to realize how quickly I would fall in love with this community.
Every day, I interact with hundreds of rabbis, administrators, staff members, parents, students, and visitors at our massive school. My daily interactions with parents and staff are unlike any other job I’ve had. Nowhere else have I received such thoughtful and kind words of appreciation, along with countless treats on a daily basis. I’m flattered by this much attention—and, honestly, I’m addicted to their kindness.
Up to this point, I was having the time of my life. Then, one day, Kristen reached out and asked if I would work security at a Purim event at a private residence. Of course, I agreed.
Solomon, a colleague, told me it would be a day filled with community members celebrating the holiday. He did mention that nearly everyone would be drinking alcohol—some more than others. Naturally, I had some concerns. I adjusted my duty gear in preparation for the shift and headed deep into Lakewood.
As I put on my gear, I noticed groups of young men walking toward me—some carrying bottles of wine and liquor, others pushing large Bluetooth speakers with blaring music. The atmosphere was festive. Everyone was singing or dancing. Countless young men approached me—some hugged me, others shook my hand, and many took pictures with me.
As the day went on, I still had my concerns, knowing that alcohol would soon take effect. But those concerns never materialized. I was pleasantly surprised to see that the chaos I had often encountered in my law enforcement career simply did not happen here. I should have known this already—because every day at the Lakewood Cheder, my large extended family demonstrates the same values. There is no ill will here. Everyone cares for each other.
Working within the Jewish community has been the most gratifying experience of my professional life, which spans many decades. They have adopted me as one of their own, and in turn, I vow to protect every community member as if they were my own son or daughter.
As I left Lakewood that Purim evening, Solomon texted me: “U ok?”
I responded, “You were 110% right. Boys will be boys. They were rowdy, but they were very polite.”
Solomon replied, “Politely rowdy? That’s awesome.”
Solomon, yes—my day was awesome. Every day I work in the Jewish community is awesome!
Louis Cuevas
Point Pleasant, NJ
The immense joy of Purim is a celebration of Kiddush Hashem and represents a glimpse of the unlimited joy that will be experienced after the final Redemption, when the world will be filled with kavod Shamayim. On Purim, we must refrain from behaviors that could lead to a chillul Hashem. The true source of our joy is found in the advancement of Hashem’s honor.
Living Kiddush Hashem was founded with the goal of imbuing every Jew with a powerful sense of mission — the mission to be mekadeish Sheim Shamayim in his or her own unique way. We strive to accomplish this by raising awareness of the paramount importance of the mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem and its centrality in everything we do.