Baltimore, MD - Nov. 22, 2016 - Although Adina (nee Frydman) Burstyn, more fondly known as “Adina B”, was born in Boston, Massachusetts, since she moved here with her family at the age of five she considers herself a Baltimorean. This popular licensed esthetician is a master juggler, raising two daughters (ages 9 and 5) while running her business, Adina B. Cosmetics and Salon, and performing chesed week in and week out for Jewish Caring Network (JCN) and Bikur Cholim of Baltimore (BCB).
In its inaugural Community Spotlight feature column, BaltimoreJewishLife.com is proud to shine the spotlight on Adina B.
BJL: What exactly do you do for JCN and BCB?
AB: I am a Meal Coordinator for both the Jewish Caring Network and Bikur Cholim of Baltimore.
BJL: How did you become the Meal Coordinator?
AB: Mrs. Aviva Isbee called me 7 or 8 years ago and asked me to cook. After a while, the position just fell into my lap.
BJL: Is there a personal story behind your volunteering as Meal Coordinator for JCN/BCB?
AB: These organizations are amazing—everyone in our community, at one point, has benefitted from JCN or BCB. When my mother was sick eleven years ago, JCN totally stepped up with gift cards and flowers and now we all give back—my parents give back, I give back sponsoring the run and being the Meal Coordinator every single week. They are amazing and we all work together—there are no politics. There is achdus between both organizations.
BJL: Do you deliver more meals for one organization over the other?
AB: We deliver meals for both organizations. Some weeks, we deliver mostly for JCN, with some BCB deliveries. JCN and BCB bought me a fridge for my house. We all work together.
BJL: How do you store all that food until it is time to deliver it?
AB: B”H, I have a beautiful home and one of the rooms is dedicated just for BCB and JCN. There is no furniture in that room—just a fridge and tons of tables and we do everything in that room. It’s very special.
BJL: Can you please describe the chain of events that occurs weekly?
AB: On Tuesday, I either get called or texted by either Stacey Goldenberg, of JCN, or Bonnie Pollak, of BCB. Next, a link is posted on Facebook to my team of volunteers. Starting on Thursday night, I have two coolers in front of my house; 50-60 different women from the community a week drop off home cooked foods. On Friday afternoon, three women and I get together and we organize all the meals--the fish, soup, chicken-and everyone gets what they need. We send out people to deliver it. It’s fun!
BJL: Do you coordinate all these meals by yourself?
AB: I happen to be just one of the people on the team. I cannot run it without my team of volunteers. My What’s App chat goes on the whole week in organizing these meals. I could not do it by myself. I think this is the only good that has come out of Facebook.
BJL: Is it difficult to find people to cook week after week?
AB: I am inspired by how fast and eager these women are to sign up. We put up the post on Tuesday and by Tuesday night or Wednesday morning, everything is done. We are talking about filling up six to ten families with everything from fish to dips to fruit to baked goods. I feel privileged to be the messenger.
BJL: When did you begin volunteering for chesed?
AB: I’ve been volunteering for JCN since I was 15. It’s been 16 years. I started helping them deliver meals when I had my driver’s permit. My older sister, Shana, would take me for my driving practice and say, ‘We have an hour; let’s deliver meals for the Jewish Caring Network!’ That’s how it started.
BJL: Now that you continue to volunteer while having a family of your own, what is your juggling secret?
AB: I have two beautiful girls, ages 9 and 5. My kids are my number one priority. I purposely don’t work between the hours of 3 and 7:30, when they are home from school. I work from 9 a.m.-3 p.m. and 7:30 or 8 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. I am very organized, I try to prioritize, and I feel that Hashem gives me a lot of strength.
BJL: What do you feel is one of the nicest things about being a Meal Coordinator?
AB: I like the fact that my kids can grow up with giving. It’s important to give to people who need help and they get to see it every Friday. They get to see everybody dropping off food and it inspires my children, as well, to be givers. It’s very special.
BJL: If someone would like to join your team what should they do?
AB: Contact me by texting 443-803-9234 or by PMing Adina Burstyn through Facebook.
BJL: Thank you, Adina B. for your inspiring interview!
AB: You are so welcome!