Eitam Henkin’s mother, Rebbetzin Chana Henkin, spoke to Ynet and Yedioth Ahronoth about her son and his wife, Naama who were killed by terrorists last Thursday.

Chana recalled that on Thursday, the Henkin family got together at her son and daughter-in-law’s sukkah in the settlement of Neria. “I remember we ate and laughed,” said Henkin. “Eitam and Naama cooked and baked, there were hot dogs and chicken breasts, and for dessert they prepared a cake. That’s what every family does during Chol Hamoed” she recounted. “We really enjoyed ourselves, we said goodbye at around four o’clock. We went to Jerusalem, and Eitam, Naama and the children went to meet friends in Elon Moreh,” she said.

“It’s is an extraordinary group, which has kept in touch from the age of 15 or 16, although each has gone on his own direction,” she said. “They always made sure to meet up once in a while.”

But at 9pm, on their way home, Eitam and Naama were shot and killed in front of their four children – Matan, 9, Nitzan, 7, Neta, 4, and Itamar, 9 months old – who were not wounded. “These kids were there,” said Henkin. “Some were asleep but others remember.”

“I was in Jerusalem when they called me,” she said in a trembling voice recalling the moment she first heard the horrible news.

She immediately went to pick up Naama’s mother, Hila Armoni, and brought the children to Itamar and from there to her house in Peduel. They both knew how important it was to hug the children and be there for them.

Chana said that “what they say cannot be understood. The injustice done to these children will only come out in the coming years. This is not living without a father and mother for one day, two days, a week or two. They will not see their parents for their whole lives.”

As for children, she added: “We immediately realized that the children need serious and dedicated care. They have become the children of all of us, the children of Israel.

“We have been having family meetings about raising them and are trying to find the best way to watch over them and raise them as Eitam and Naama would have liked,” she said. “They are smart kids who understand what is happening around them. However, we are here.”

“Little Itamar will not remember the months in which his parents rocked him to calm him when he cried,” she said. “Nata might remember a bit, as well as Nitzan and Matan. But we’re here to raise them as closely as possible to how their parents would have raised them. I want to emphasize that we have suffered a huge loss. Israel also lost very significant figures,” said the grandmother. “We are not in favor of personal vengeance, but demand that the government provide security for its citizens.”