Baltimore, MD – July 16, 2023 - Tonight, 28 Tammuz, marks the 16th Yahrtzeit of HaRav Amram Taub, zt"l, the Rav of Khal Arugas Habosem of Baltimore, known as The Brider Rav. A talmid of the Satmar Rebbe, Ztk"l, and a cherished link to the previous generation, Rav Taub provided our generation with a glimpse of the great Tzadikim of Europe.
Rav Taub's extraordinary Ahavas Yisroel is the subject of many stories, as his home and Bais Medrash were always open to all. Moreover, his heartfelt davening remains deeply ingrained in our memories. He served as the Mohel for thousands of boys. HaRav Taub's unwavering dedication and enjoyment of learning are beyond description; he truly embodied the verse "Shivti b’vais Hashem Kol Yi’may Chayai".
However, I would like to focus on something else. I am confident that anyone who has ever entered the doors of Khal Arugas Habosem of Baltimore or had even a brief encounter with Rav Taub shares the same thought as I do. Whenever you saw Rav Taub, he was always smiling.
To an outsider, it may have appeared that Rav Taub led an easy life. However, the reality was far from it. In fact, his life was filled with unimaginable challenges, and the smile we witnessed was truly beyond comprehension.
As a young Rav in Hungary, Rav Taub seemed to have it all. He was the father of five children and was able to learn with tranquility. Sadly, this period of peace was abruptly ended by Hitler, ym"s, and Rav Taub's entire family—his wife and five young children—were brutally murdered by the Nazis. Rav Taub himself endured the horrors of numerous concentration camps during the Holocaust.
After the war, Rav Taub relocated to America and was sent to Baltimore by the Satmar Rebbe to become the Rav of Arugas Habosem. He remarried and built a new family. Just when it seemed that he could finally find some peace, tragedy struck again. He experienced the loss of his Rebbitzen, leaving him as a widower with nine young orphans. With immense mesiras nefesh, he single-handedly raised them.
Rav Taub married off all nine of his children, and it seemed that all was well. However, fate had other plans. His oldest daughter passed away at a young age, followed by the untimely passing of a son-in-law, both leaving behind families with young yesomim.
These tragic events would have broken most people. Anyone who had endured such hardships would understandably be shattered. Yet, Rav Taub's smile never faded. It is difficult to comprehend how he could have endured so much and still maintain a perpetual smile on his face. Every person who approached him to offer greetings, even a small child, witnessed the true essence of Simchos HaChaim.
We may never fully grasp how it was possible for Rav Taub to suffer so deeply and yet always wear a smile. It is an aspect that requires explanation, though it is uncertain whether anyone can truly provide one.
When asked about his perpetually cheerful demeanor, Rav Taub humbly replied that inwardly, he was broken. However, outwardly, he never allowed it to show. He believed that a person's face, their smile, is a reshus harabim. While he carried profound inner pain, he believed that no one else should bear witness to it.
The everlasting smile that adorned Rav Taub's face is the legacy he has left for us. May none of us ever be tested with the numerous trials and tribulations that he endured. Nevertheless, I believe there is a message he imparted to us—an example of how one must always maintain a perpetual smile, regardless of life's challenges.
TNZB"H - May his soul be bound in the bond of eternal life.
HaRav Taub, z'tl, with yl't, Rabbi Meyer Brull