Sivan Rahav-Meir /The Daily Portion, Masei / What Names Do You Give To Your Journeys And To Your Stops Along The Way?
By: Sivan Rahav-Meir/Translation by Yehoshua Siskin
Once a fire broke out next to the hotel we were staying at on Shabbat and we had to quickly leave our room together with our small children. An hour later the fire was put out and we returned to our hotel. I tried to calm the children but was left with the feeling that this had been a frightening experience for all of us.
Several weeks later, we were traveling in the same area and one of our children pointed at the hotel and excitedly said: "This is the place where we had so much fun when we ran out of the hotel."
We give names to the journeys we take and to the stops we make along the way. Any experience can be described in terms of the dry facts involved, but our commentary surrounding those facts is crucial. Is what we endured -- or are enduring now -- a failure or a precursor to success? Is what has happened to us a horrible embarrassment or a fantastic opportunity to learn and grow? Only we can determine that.
In this week's Torah portion of Masei, the names of our 42 encampments in the Sinai Desert are listed. Rabbi Bachya ben Asher, a commentator living in Spain 700 years ago, wrote that all the places where the nation stopped did not even have names before we arrived. The desert was empty, without landmarks. It was the nation of Israel that determined the name of each place. "Each place according to the intent (mindset of the nation)."
When the children of Israel were joyful and righteous, faithful and good, the places where they stopped were called Mitkah and Har-Shefer, names signifying metikut (sweetness) and shipur (improvement). But when the people's spiritual condition deteriorated, the places where they stopped were called Charadah and Marah, names signifying fear and bitterness.
The decision is in our hands. What are the names we give to our journeys, and what are the names we give to the places where we stop along the way?
Sivan Rahav-Meir (Eyalbenyais)
Once a fire broke out next to the hotel we were staying at on Shabbat and we had to quickly leave our room together with our small children. An hour later the fire was put out and we returned to our hotel. I tried to calm the children but was left with the feeling that this had been a frightening experience for all of us.
Several weeks later, we were traveling in the same area and one of our children pointed at the hotel and excitedly said: "This is the place where we had so much fun when we ran out of the hotel."
We give names to the journeys we take and to the stops we make along the way. Any experience can be described in terms of the dry facts involved, but our commentary surrounding those facts is crucial. Is what we endured -- or are enduring now -- a failure or a precursor to success? Is what has happened to us a horrible embarrassment or a fantastic opportunity to learn and grow? Only we can determine that.
In this week's Torah portion of Masei, the names of our 42 encampments in the Sinai Desert are listed. Rabbi Bachya ben Asher, a commentator living in Spain 700 years ago, wrote that all the places where the nation stopped did not even have names before we arrived. The desert was empty, without landmarks. It was the nation of Israel that determined the name of each place. "Each place according to the intent (mindset of the nation)."
When the children of Israel were joyful and righteous, faithful and good, the places where they stopped were called Mitkah and Har-Shefer, names signifying metikut (sweetness) and shipur (improvement). But when the people's spiritual condition deteriorated, the places where they stopped were called Charadah and Marah, names signifying fear and bitterness.
The decision is in our hands. What are the names we give to our journeys, and what are the names we give to the places where we stop along the way?
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Baltimore, MD – Aug. 20, 2025 - Tomorrow, Thursday, Aug. 21, is Yom Kippur Koton, a special opportunity to daven on behalf of Acheinu B'nei Yisroel in Eretz Yisroel and around the world.
Please note the following Yom Kippur Koton / Mincha Minyanim in town: (If you know of any others, please let us know so we may add them to this list.)
Agudah of Park Heights Rabbi Moshe Heinemann – 1:45 PM (Upstairs, 3rd floor)Mercaz Torah U'TefillahZidichover Rebbe - 1:45PM (with the Mincha Gedolah Minyan)
Khal Ahavas Yisrael Tzemach Tzedek (KAYTT) Rabbi Dovid Heber – 2:00 PM 📍 Ezras Noshim open for women.
Community Kollel – 2:45 PM
Agudah of Park Heights Rabbi Moshe Heinemann – 6:55 PM (Upstairs, 3rd floor)
Darchei Tzedek Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz ...
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For American families and investors looking for the perfect combination of strong values and smart living, Jerusalem’s newest neighborhood, Givat Hamatos, is emerging as one of the most attractive opportunities on the market today.
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A Neighborhood with Character Unlike the massive high‑rise towers increasingly common in Jerusalem, Givat Hamat...
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Baltimore, MD – Aug. 15, 2025 – BJL deeply regrets to inform the community of the petira of Mrs. Eva Kahn, a''h, mother of Chaim (Esther) Kahn, Yehudis (Binyamin) Benjamin and Mayer (Chaya) Kahn.Shiva is being observed at 2325 Blackberry Rd., Baltimore, MD 21209 from August 19–22.Minyanim:Shacharis: Wednesday, Thursday, Friday 7:30AMMincha/Maariv: Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday: 7:40PM:
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Baltimore, MD - Aug. 18, 2025 - I'm writing to you today with a very personal request.
My brother Irwin has been battling liver cancer and non-alcoholic cirrhosis. His only curative option at this point is a living donor liver transplant.
The liver is a truly amazing organ—it regenerates. A healthy person can donate a portion of their liver, and it will grow back to full size within weeks. This incredible gift could save Irwin’s life.
We are looking for a healthy individual between the ages of 18 and 60 with blood type A+, A-, O+, or O-.
Irwin is currently being evaluated at several of the nation's top transplant centers, including:
- Johns Hopkins Hospital (Baltimore) - NYU Langone Health (New York City) - University of Maryland Medical Center (Baltimore)
Irwin...
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Baltimore, MD – Aug. 19, 2025 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petira of Rabbi Ari Flamm, z”l, husband of Hadassah Flamm, father of Efy (Penina) Flamm, Aviva (Yossi) Rosenberg, Yossi (Chani) Flamm, Shoshi (Binyomin) Benjamin, Yisroel Meir Flamm, Shaul (Raizy) Flamm, Shira (Naftoli) Chayn, and Dovid (Rivky) Flamm, and brother of Rabbi Gershon Flamm.
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Baltimore, MD - Aug. 20, 2025 - The Mitzvah Motivators Summer Masmidim 25th (or so) annual All-The-Brachos-You-Can-Make Buffetwill be held at mitzvah motivators world headquarters:7000 Rockland Hills DrSunday, August 24From 4:30 – 6 pmThe buffet is for Mitzvah Motivators participants and prize sponsors only. You must bring along your completed form for either the first or second session.For sponsorships, minimum donation is $100Family sponsorship minimum is $180Donations can be Zelled to 443-465-4066If you would like to sponsor a picture of Abraham Lincoln for the Mitzvah Motivator raffle, feel free to bring a crisp picture or a fungible equivalent.For HCC Separate Swim, please visit mitzvahmo.com or call 410-764-3474.Please spread the word!
Baltimore, MD – Aug. 21, 2025 - BJL wishes a hearty Mazel Tov to Elimelech and Perri Tropper on the birth of a son.
Mazel Tov to the grandparents Hillel & Rachelle Tropper and Doni & Chaya Greenwald
יה"ר שיזכו לגדל בנם לתורה, לחופה, ולמעשים טובים. אמן!
Baltimore, MD - Aug. 21, 2025 - Today we witnessed the demolition of the iconic Pimlico Race Course Clubhouse a major step toward securing the future of the Preakness right here in Baltimore.
Grateful to First Lady Dawn Moore and Governor Wes Moore for turning the Preakness into a true statewide celebration one our entire community can take pride in and benefit from.
This work guarantees that the Preakness Stakes will remain a Baltimore tradition for the next 150 years.
Special thanks to the dedicated professionals at Maryland Stadium Authority , Berg Demo, and Clark Construction for carrying out this important historic project with a true community first mindset.
Baltimore, MD - Aug. 21, 2025 - WITS opened its laboratory facilities to Yachad-Baltimore participants, providing hands-on experiences that combine science, curiosity, and inspiration. Under the direction of Dr. Arthur Salhanick, the WITS lab coordinator, Yachad young adults, men and women, along with staff members, have, to date, engaged in four hands-on lab activities: exploring the process of cellular respiration, constructing molecular models, microscopic examination of plant and animal organisms (including live specimens), and most recently examining mammalian anatomy using the fetal pig as a dissection model.More than providing an excitement in putting on gloves, goggles, and lab aprons, the true goal is to show the beauty of the world Hashem has given us. For example, a lab on cellu...
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Last school year, Maryland issued 20,000 automatic citations for drivers who illegally passed school buses.
However, officials believe the actual number of violations may be much higher since only nine out of Maryland's 24 school districts have automatic enforcement cameras on their buses.
Costly consequences for violations
Drivers who pass stopped school buses face substantial financial penaltie...
Baltimore, MD – Aug. 21, 2025 - BJL wishes a hearty Mazel Tov to Ozzie and Miriam Marizan on the birth of a son
Mazel Tov grandparents Aiton & Deborah Marizan and Shmuel and Adina Tarshish
Mazel Tov to the great-grandparents Rafi Marizan and Nancy Marizan and Mrs. Elaine Taragin and Hanna Zehnwirth and Ethel Tarshish
Mazel Tov Great Great Grandmother Sylvia Potash
יה"ר שיזכו לגדל בנם לתורה, לחופה, ולמעשים טובים. אמן!
New York - An appeals court has thrown out the massive civil fraud penalty against President Donald Trump, ruling Thursday in New York state’s lawsuit accusing him of exaggerating his wealth.
The decision came seven months after the Republican returned to the White House. A panel of five judges in New York’s mid-level Appellate Division said the verdict, which stood to cost Trump over $515 million and rock his real estate empire, was “excessive.”
After finding that Trump engaged in fraud by flagrantly padding financial statements that went to lenders and insurers, Judge Arthur Engoron ordered him last year to pay $355 million in penalties. With interest, the sum has topped $515 million.
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With an increased number of pedestrians in this corridor, it’s critical that we continue upgrading and providing the necessary infrastructure to allow folks to safely travel to and from their destinations on foot.
Work on the curb cut ramps is expected to be completed within the next 12 months, pending weather and scheduling.
Baltimore, MD - Aug. 20, 2025 - Ed Hale Sr. announced his candidacy for Governor of Maryland on Wednesday morning.
The announcement took place at Canton Waterfront Park.
Hale outlined his vision and priorities for the state, and focused on economic growth, public safety, education, and quality of life.
The owner of the Baltimore Blast, Hale is now 78-years-old, and originally announced his intentions to run for governor as a Democrat in May.
"I was the worker kid, cutting the grass, painting houses, things like that," he said in May.
The self-made businessman has a wide range of professional experience. With no family money or college education, he went on to join the military before becoming the CEO of First Mariner bank, which went bankrupt during the Great Recession and w...
So who is the oldest Jew in the world? Last week I wrote here about the 105th (!) birthday of Renee Binstock. This week, I was delighted to hear from the Mamo family; compared to their grandmother, Renee is practically a youngster. Their grandmother, Aliza Mamo, will soon celebrate her 106th birthday.
Her grandson, Ilan Shevah, relates: “Grandma was born on the island of Djerba, Tunisia, in 1919. As a child and teenager she was active and full of energy—helping the elderly, running errands for her parents, dashing through the narrow alleys of the Jewish quarter. She grew up under the influence of Djerba’s sages and righteous men, absorbing holiness and yirat Shamayim.
“After her marriage, our grandfather worked outside the home and she raised the family almost sin...
Jerusalem, Israel -Aug. 20, 2025 - The Train Theater’s 34th International Puppet Festival opened in Jerusalem, Israel, Sunday night, August 17, with a vibrant celebration of creativity.
The opening night was attended by Jerusalem Mayor Moshe Lion, Train Theater CEO Kobi Frig, the theater’s board members, Artistic Director Shahar Marom, and Tamar Berliner, head of the Jerusalem Municipality’s Department of Culture and Arts, along with an audience of cultural figures and guests of all ages.
Attendees enjoyed a special preview of the new outdoor complex, “X Mix,” in Liberty Bell Park and were invited to watch the festival’s opening performances. The festival runs through Thursday, August 21, featuring premiere productions, international artists...