Parshas Bo has four distinct sections. The beginning of the parsha is the description of the final makkos building up to makkas bechoros. The Rambam writes that the story of Moshe confronting Pharaoh is a historical fact and simultaneously, it illustrates the struggles all human beings have between their yetzer horo and yetzer tov.

Pharaoh sees everything in Egypt has crumbled. All ancient societies built their economy on agriculture and animal power to produce wealth. Makkas borod and arbeh destroyed all the crops. In borod, all the animals were killed (besides those who feared Hashem and hid their animals inside shelters). So the economy, the food supply, has totally collapsed.

Pharaoh says he is letting the Jews go, but be careful—there are evil powers of the midbor coming to oppose you. Pharaoh doesn’t really have a choice but to capitulate. But when people are desperate to hold on to their sense of control, they use any sliver of a possibility to deny the uncomfortable facts.

For instance, when Moshe predicts makkas bechoros to Pharaoh and his court, he is careful to make an imprecise prediction. “At around midnight.” Rashi explains that if the prediction would be precise, and the timekeeping methods of the Egyptians would be a little bit off, they would dismiss the makka as a coincidence and Moshe as a fraud! This is astounding. Rashi is teaching us a deep lesson in human psychology. People who are desperate to avoid changing how they look at the world will use anything to preserve their old way of life. Even though nine makkos have been predicted and came to pass exactly how Moshe said it would, it doesn’t matter. If all the bechoros drop dead—a second before or after Moshe said they would—they now have an excuse to block out the truth and carry on life as usual. It could be the flimsiest of pretexts. It doesn’t matter. The reality is too uncomfortable and nothing will budge them to make them change.

The most amazing example of this was the fact that on the night of makkas bechoros, Pharaoh goes to bed. He has been going to bed every night the entire year of the makkos! Just imagine: Moshe has not been wrong for nine makkos—the entire Egyptian infrastructure is in ruins. Moshe now warns Pharaoh that his own son will die. But it doesn’t matter. Pharaoh wants to go through life making believe there is nothing to worry about. Nothing will disturb his fantasy.

Then there is a total explosion in Egypt—everyone screaming—and now he wakes up and leaves his bed in the middle of the night. This is the human condition.

The next part of the parsha is the korbon Pesach. Where does this korban fit into the scheme of yetzias mitzraim?

Hashem has been giving Klal Yisroel a powerful education for an entire year about the reality of the world. There is no other power in the world. All the avodo zoros are false. There is only Hashem’s power which causes everything to exist and causes everything to happen. He showed it with the Nile and with the sun. But these are brand new concepts. For generations, Klal Yisroel had been completely integrated into Egyptian culture and are virtually indistinguishable from the Egyptians. Before they leave Egypt, they have to demonstrate that they are different, that they are worthy of leaving.

Before Yaakov went down to Egypt, he was very excited to see Yosef before he dies. But then Yaakov comes to Be’er Shevah. This place is like a hard line between civilization and total midbor all the way to Egypt. He gets nervous about how the golus would progress over the years—perhaps we will never come back? Maybe this is a one-way trip?

Hashem appears to Yaakov and reassures him: I will go down with you and guarantee that they will return. But there are no free lunches in this world. Klal Yisroel have to deserve redemption. So Hashem has to give Klal Yisroel a crash-course in the fundamentals of Yiddishkeit for an entire year in the hope that they can extricate themselves from the influence they’ve been under for so long. But despite all this, for 80% of Klal Yisroel, it doesn’t stick. They think that Egypt is their permanent home and somehow justify everything going on around them. It was too hard to go back to being the children of the ovos and they will have to die in makkas choshech. For the rest, those who were ready to leave, it also wasn’t so simple. They have to bring a korbon pesach and perform bris miloh. These were preconditions for being worthy of geuloh.

Miloh is one of the few mitzvos which are a bris between Hashem and Klal Yisroel. Like Shabbos, it is what makes Klal Yisroel unique and without it, we lose our core identity as Hashem’s special people. On Shabbos, we testify that Hashem created the world and we pull back from creative activity on Shabbos to show that this world is not ours. If we violate Shabbos, we are treated like a non-Jew.

In Kiddush we say the posuk “asher boroh Elokim la’asos.” What does la’asos mean? It means the world is really incomplete and needs to be made by us. Hashem created us with an orloh for us to remove. Turnus Rufus asked Rabbi Akiva—If Hashem despises the orloh, why did He create us with one? If He hates poverty, why did He create people who are poor?

Rabbi Akiva responded that these are good questions. But whose actions are better? Hashem’s or Man’s? Come back to me tomorrow with a handful of wheat kernels. Rabbi Akiva prepared for the meeting with a cake his wife made. He first told Turnus Rufus to eat the cake and then eat the kernels. He enjoyed the cake and then vomited from ingesting the kernels.

Rabbi Akiva shows him that man’s actions are better. Hashem created the world in its raw, unfinished state. Hashem wants us to complete it. Even Odom requires completion and perfection and the first step is through bris miloh. We have to make ourselves better people out of the raw material Hashem created. We can mold and form ourselves into someone who Hashem wants us to become. We don’t do “self-discovery”. Don’t accept yourself just the way you are. Push yourself to become more than who you started out to be.

This is bris miloh. Hashem created an imperfect world and expects us to finish the job. Sometimes it isn’t easy to raise ourselves up to levels that we aren’t used to being on. Hashem tells the novi that we survived Egypt through our blood. Nothing of any value happens in this world without sacrifice and pain of growth and elevation.

All this was a precondition to becoming Jewish. A bris miloh means we testify with our very bodies that we are Hashem’s representatives in the world—different from all other nationalities.

Chazal tell us how Dovid Hamelech labeled a mizmor of Tehillim. He was in a bath house and was mortified that he didn’t have any mitzvos on him—no tallis, no tefillin—to remind him that he is a Jew who serves Hashem. Then he was put at ease when he realized he still had bris miloh—an indelible sign that he is a servant of Hashem which can never be removed from him—on his very flesh.

Some people can subject everything they have to Hashem besides their very selves. Bris Miloh is who we are. This Mizmor doesn’t talk about miloh at all! It talks about loshon horo. Why? Because once we subject our very selves, we realize that even our speech and our mannerisms are subject to Hashem’s command.

Hashem told us to put the blood of the korbon on the doorposts. Why was this necessary? Hashem needs some blood to figure out which house is Jewish and which isn’t?

The answer is that this was a part of our demonstration that we are worthy of being redeemed. We had to take the avodo zoro of the Mitzrim in public, make it a sacrifice and put it on display on the doorpost for everyone to see. We had to make a total rejection of our previous identity. We are not subject to our human masters, we don’t fear their disapproval. We only fear Hashem.

This was the zechus that made us worthy of geuloh. We became spiritually mature and developed. But we had to take that maturity and put it into practice—make a public demonstration of our devotion to avodas Hashem. These are the two mitzvos asei which are chayav koreis. Without them, we are lacking the conviction that we are Jews whose very identity is that we are avdei Hashem.

In every generation, there are avodo zoros without number. We need to take the prevalent avodo zoro and culture and reject it publically. We don’t care if the world goes crazy and threatens to harm us.

When Klal Yisroel leave, the eirev rav leave with them. These are a very dangerous group of people. They were the source of Klal Yisroel’s downfall throughout their journey in the midbor and throughout the generations.

What is so dangerous about them? They were so taken by Klal Yisroel’s meteoric rise to greatness that they wanted to follow them. They saw all the wealth and majesty of Klal Yisroel when they left Egypt that they wanted to be a part of it too and jump on the bandwagon. But Klal Yisroel had to earn it first with painful lessons and mitzvos involving their own blood. The eirev rav wanted to enjoy all the benefits without making any sacrifices. But then, when things get hard, they were the first ones to complain.

Of course Torah and Mitzvos are the most uplifting and inspiring things in the world. But it takes effort and struggle of climbing a mountain, in slow, careful steps. There is no instant ruchniyus where you press a button and you gain sheleimus. You can’t expect real growth to come easy.

My rebbe once pointed out that we say in the beginning of the haggodoh—hoh lachmoh anyoh—a poor man’s bread. But at the end of the haggodoh, the matzoh becomes a symbol of freedom and geuloh. Once you go through a yetzias Mitzrayim, then the same matzoh you ate as a slave becomes transformed into a food of freedom.

We need to review yetzias Mitzrayim in the many mitzvos we repeat daily, because the lessons are so vital and so fundamental. The idea of subjecting ourselves entirely to Hashem without holding back, to denounce the avodo zoros being worshiped around us, to go through pain and hardship in order to achieve something worthwhile—in order to raise our level and be worthy of geuloh. That is what it means to be Jewish.

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Rabbi Zvi Teichman on Parshas Chayei Sarah - It Takes Two to Tango

The G-d of heaven—who took me from my father’s house and from my native land, who promised me on oath, saying, ‘I will assign this land to your offspring’—He will send you His angel before you, and you will get a wife for my son from there. (בראשית כד ז)


Avraham Avinu entrusts his loyal servant/disciple, Eliezer, to select a suitable wife for his beloved son, Yitzchok, from his native land, his birthplace. He makes Eliezer take an oath that he will be loyal to his objective and deviate an iota.


Avraham seems to be assuring him with certainty that he will succeed. How could he have been so confident?


Chizkuni suggests that Avraham received a prophecy to this effect and was thus counting on its fulfillment. He supports this idea from a later verse that describes how Lavan and Besuel reacted after hearing from Eliezer the remarkable sequence of events from the directive of his master to his encountering Rivkah at the well, by exclaiming, 'Let her be a wife for your master's son, as G-d has spoken', intimating G-d having expressed a prophecy that was now fulfilled.


The Ibn Ezra, however, rejects this proposition since after his heartfelt appeal and assurance that Eliezer will succeed, Avraham nevertheless adds 'that if the girl does not want to come back with you, then you shall be absolved of my oath'.


Was it a prophecy how could he consider the possibility of Rivkah declining the offer? Evidently, he claims, it was simply a heartfelt prayer for his success, with a distinct chance of his failing to achieve his mission.


Perhaps there is a profound lesson in resolving this question.


Although G-d can manipulate events to carry out His wishes in bringing success or failure to any endeavor, there is one area where G-d relinquishes His control and handing it to the individual.


G-d endowed us with free will to make the choices and assume responsibility for them. Whether those choices bring about our desired result is totally up to G-d. But, when we are talking about relationships, and of course the most exquisite one, that of marriage, it takes two to tango. Despite the heavenly voice that emenated forty days before we were conceived that paired each one of us to our bashert, no one can force the other to choose them as a mate, nor will G-d compel it, for that would deny the G-d given right to choose freely.


Similarly, the prophecy that Rivkah was destined for Yitzchok, was just that. She would be picked as the candidate eligible for Yitzchok to wed. But, nevertheless, she could have declined.


Avraham knew this very well, that despite his knowledge of Rivkah as the designated mate for Yitzchok, it was solely up to her to choose that option. He thus considered that possibility and freed Eliezer in the event she declined.


I would venture to consider that even when one meets another who wasn't declared one's bashert, and perhaps a union not destined for success, and marries—through free will, can make it work. Otherwise, it would be denying man's right to choose freely.(פניני רבינו הקהילת יעקב עמ' לד)


I would add one other observation.


Avraham Avinu introduces to Eilezer his mission by prefacing it with his strings of successes and promises from G-d. Avraham refers to the days when G-d was only the Lord of the heavens, not the earth, for Avraham had not yet set out on his mission to promulgate to humanity the Oneness of G-d. Yet, G-d had intervened to draw him out of his father's home, directing him to the promised land he would one day bequeath to his children.


All this fortified Avraham's faith that G-d would lead him to find a mate suited to his holy son Yitzchok, relying on the 'sun that shined upon him' would continue to in realizing his dream of finding the perfect wife for his son. He therefore felt secure, even according to those who understand it as just an expression of faith and prayer— that G-d would send an angel his way.


Nevertheless, Avraham does not deny the possibility of failure, asserting that his son will not compromise by traveling out of the land in pursuit of his bashert, and frees Eliezer from his oath, with Avraham remaining with uncompromising faith in G-d despite the potential disappointment.


So often in the journey through shidduchim there is so much promise, yet often it is followed by disappointment, when it doesn't work out.


We would be wise to follow in the footsteps of our Patriarch, Avraham, in never getting discouraged and forge on with faith.


And of course, when things go awry in relationships, to always remember we are free willed beings. It takes 'two to tango', and with our free will we can overcome any obstacle.


באהבה,


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The G-d of heaven—who took me from my father’s house and from my native land, who promised me on oath, saying, ‘I will assign this land to your offspring’—He will send you His angel before you, and you will get a wife for my son from there. (בראשית כד ז) Avraham Avinu entrusts his loyal servant/disciple, Eliezer, to select a suitable wife for his beloved son, Yitzchok, from his native land, his birthplace. He makes Eliezer take an oath that he will be loyal to his objective and deviate an iota. Avraham seems to be assuring him with certainty that he will succeed. How could he have been so confident? Chizkuni suggests that Avraham received a prophecy to this effect and was thus counting on its fulfillment. He supports this idea from a later verse th...
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