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Parshas Bo has four distinct sections. The beginning of the parsha is the description of the final makkos building up to makkas bechoros. The Rambam writes that the story of Moshe confronting Pharaoh is a historical fact and simultaneously, it illustrates the struggles all human beings have between their yetzer horo and yetzer tov. Pharaoh sees everything in Egypt has crumbled. All ancient societies built their economy on agriculture and animal power to produce wealth. Makkas borod and arbeh destroyed all the crops. In borod, all the animals were killed (besides those who feared Hashem and hid their animals inside shelters). So the economy, the food supply, has totally collapsed. Pharaoh says he is letting the Jews go, but be careful—there are evil powers of the midbor coming to oppose you. Pharaoh doesn’t really have a choice but to capitulate. But when people are desperate to hold on to their sense of control, they use any sliver of a possibility to deny the uncomfortable facts. For instance, when Moshe predicts makkas bechoros to Pharaoh and his court, he is careful to make an imprecise prediction. “At around midnight.” Rashi explains that if the prediction would be precise, and the timekeeping methods of the Egyptians would be a little bit off, they would dismiss the makka as a coincidence and Moshe as a fraud! This is astounding. Rashi is teaching us a deep lesson in human psychology. People who are desperate to avoid changing how they look at the world will use anything to preserve their old way of life. Even though nine makkos have been predicted and came to pass exactly how Moshe said it would, it doesn’t matter. If all the bechoros drop dead—a second before or after Moshe said they would—they now have an excuse to block out the truth and carry on life as usual. It could be the flimsiest of pretexts. It doesn’t matter. The reality is too uncomfortable and nothing will budge them to make them change. The most amazing example of this was the fact that on the night of makkas bechoros, Pharaoh goes to bed. He has been going to bed every night the entire year of the makkos! Just imagine: Moshe has not been wrong for nine makkos—the entire Egyptian infrastructure is in ruins. Moshe now warns Pharaoh that his own son will die. But it doesn’t matter. Pharaoh wants to go through life making believe there is nothing to worry about. Nothing will disturb his fantasy. Then there is a total explosion in Egypt—everyone screaming—and now he wakes up and leaves his bed in the middle of the night. This is the human condition. The next part of the parsha is the korbon Pesach. Where does this korban fit into the scheme of yetzias mitzraim? Hashem has been giving Klal Yisroel a powerful education for an entire year about the reality of the world. There is no other power in the world. All the avodo zoros are false. There is only Hashem’s power which causes everything to exist and causes everything to happen. He showed it with the Nile and with the sun. But these are brand new concepts. For generations, Klal Yisroel had been completely integrated into Egyptian culture and are virtually indistinguishable from the Egyptians. Before they leave Egypt, they have to demonstrate that they are different, that they are worthy of leaving. Before Yaakov went down to Egypt, he was very excited to see Yosef before he dies. But then Yaakov comes to Be’er Shevah. This place is like a hard line between civilization and total midbor all the way to Egypt. He gets nervous about how the golus would progress over the years—perhaps we will never come back? Maybe this is a one-way trip? Hashem appears to Yaakov and reassures him: I will go down with you and guarantee that they will return. But there are no free lunches in this world. Klal Yisroel have to deserve redemption. So Hashem has to give Klal Yisroel a crash-course in the fundamentals of Yiddishkeit for an entire year in the hope that they can extricate themselves from the influence they’ve been under for so long. But despite all this, for 80% of Klal Yisroel, it doesn’t stick. They think that Egypt is their permanent home and somehow justify everything going on around them. It was too hard to go back to being the children of the ovos and they will have to die in makkas choshech. For the rest, those who were ready to leave, it also wasn’t so simple. They have to bring a korbon pesach and perform bris miloh. These were preconditions for being worthy of geuloh. Miloh is one of the few mitzvos which are a bris between Hashem and Klal Yisroel. Like Shabbos, it is what makes Klal Yisroel unique and without it, we lose our core identity as Hashem’s special people. On Shabbos, we testify that Hashem created the world and we pull back from creative activity on Shabbos to show that this world is not ours. If we violate Shabbos, we are treated like a non-Jew. In Kiddush we say the posuk “asher boroh Elokim la’asos.” What does la’asos mean? It means the world is really incomplete and needs to be made by us. Hashem created us with an orloh for us to remove. Turnus Rufus asked Rabbi Akiva—If Hashem despises the orloh, why did He create us with one? If He hates poverty, why did He create people who are poor? Rabbi Akiva responded that these are good questions. But whose actions are better? Hashem’s or Man’s? Come back to me tomorrow with a handful of wheat kernels. Rabbi Akiva prepared for the meeting with a cake his wife made. He first told Turnus Rufus to eat the cake and then eat the kernels. He enjoyed the cake and then vomited from ingesting the kernels. Rabbi Akiva shows him that man’s actions are better. Hashem created the world in its raw, unfinished state. Hashem wants us to complete it. Even Odom requires completion and perfection and the first step is through bris miloh. We have to make ourselves better people out of the raw material Hashem created. We can mold and form ourselves into someone who Hashem wants us to become. We don’t do “self-discovery”. Don’t accept yourself just the way you are. Push yourself to become more than who you started out to be. This is bris miloh. Hashem created an imperfect world and expects us to finish the job. Sometimes it isn’t easy to raise ourselves up to levels that we aren’t used to being on. Hashem tells the novi that we survived Egypt through our blood. Nothing of any value happens in this world without sacrifice and pain of growth and elevation. All this was a precondition to becoming Jewish. A bris miloh means we testify with our very bodies that we are Hashem’s representatives in the world—different from all other nationalities. Chazal tell us how Dovid Hamelech labeled a mizmor of Tehillim. He was in a bath house and was mortified that he didn’t have any mitzvos on him—no tallis, no tefillin—to remind him that he is a Jew who serves Hashem. Then he was put at ease when he realized he still had bris miloh—an indelible sign that he is a servant of Hashem which can never be removed from him—on his very flesh. Some people can subject everything they have to Hashem besides their very selves. Bris Miloh is who we are. This Mizmor doesn’t talk about miloh at all! It talks about loshon horo. Why? Because once we subject our very selves, we realize that even our speech and our mannerisms are subject to Hashem’s command. Hashem told us to put the blood of the korbon on the doorposts. Why was this necessary? Hashem needs some blood to figure out which house is Jewish and which isn’t? The answer is that this was a part of our demonstration that we are worthy of being redeemed. We had to take the avodo zoro of the Mitzrim in public, make it a sacrifice and put it on display on the doorpost for everyone to see. We had to make a total rejection of our previous identity. We are not subject to our human masters, we don’t fear their disapproval. We only fear Hashem. This was the zechus that made us worthy of geuloh. We became spiritually mature and developed. But we had to take that maturity and put it into practice—make a public demonstration of our devotion to avodas Hashem. These are the two mitzvos asei which are chayav koreis. Without them, we are lacking the conviction that we are Jews whose very identity is that we are avdei Hashem. In every generation, there are avodo zoros without number. We need to take the prevalent avodo zoro and culture and reject it publically. We don’t care if the world goes crazy and threatens to harm us. When Klal Yisroel leave, the eirev rav leave with them. These are a very dangerous group of people. They were the source of Klal Yisroel’s downfall throughout their journey in the midbor and throughout the generations. What is so dangerous about them? They were so taken by Klal Yisroel’s meteoric rise to greatness that they wanted to follow them. They saw all the wealth and majesty of Klal Yisroel when they left Egypt that they wanted to be a part of it too and jump on the bandwagon. But Klal Yisroel had to earn it first with painful lessons and mitzvos involving their own blood. The eirev rav wanted to enjoy all the benefits without making any sacrifices. But then, when things get hard, they were the first ones to complain. Of course Torah and Mitzvos are the most uplifting and inspiring things in the world. But it takes effort and struggle of climbing a mountain, in slow, careful steps. There is no instant ruchniyus where you press a button and you gain sheleimus. You can’t expect real growth to come easy. My rebbe once pointed out that we say in the beginning of the haggodoh—hoh lachmoh anyoh—a poor man’s bread. But at the end of the haggodoh, the matzoh becomes a symbol of freedom and geuloh. Once you go through a yetzias Mitzrayim, then the same matzoh you ate as a slave becomes transformed into a food of freedom. We need to review yetzias Mitzrayim in the many mitzvos we repeat daily, because the lessons are so vital and so fundamental. The idea of subjecting ourselves entirely to Hashem without holding back, to denounce the avodo zoros being worshiped around us, to go through pain and hardship in order to achieve something worthwhile—in order to raise our level and be worthy of geuloh. That is what it means to be Jewish. PINNED Scroll for more news
“Shas Yidden have a lust for Shas.”In the course of his popular daily Daf Yomi shiur on Menachos 71 (Monday, 5 Nissan), Rav Eli Stefansky recalled an incredible anecdote related to this daf, from the time he farhered the gaonim of “Kollel Shas Yidden.”“I was called to give a farher to the yungeleit of Shas Yidden… yungeleit who know Shas cold…” he recalled. ““One of the questions I asked them was, ‘In which species of tree does the male tree produce the fruit?’ Immediately, there was yelling from all sides, but one thin voice towered above the rest: ‘Tosafos, Menachos daf ayin aleph!’ it cried out.“When I asked whether anyone knew the text of the Tosafos, Rav Dovid Menashe cited the Tosafos verbatim...
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Baltimore, MD – Mar. 2026 - Are you nervous about Kashering for Pesach; unsure you will get it done properly? Are you afraid the water will ruin your cabinets and create a mess in your kitchen? Are you moving into a new house and need the kitchen kashered; stress-free? Click here: https://t.ly/UknmP For the last seven years, The Kashering Konnection, has been servicing the Baltimore and DC communities. Coordinated through Star-K Kashrus Administrator Rabbi Sholom Tendler, experienced, professional Mashgichim are available to come to your home and ensure an easy, mess-free and 100% properly-done Kashering of your kitchen and appliances. From ovens to stoves, counters to sinks, The Kashering Konnection can help you prepare for Pesach in an easy and affordable w...
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petira of Judy Moss, a’h, mother of Rochel Chana Moss and Dina (Jordan) Brookmyer.
The levaya will be held graveside tomorrow, March 24, 2026 at 1:30PM at Agudath Israel Cemetery 6300 Hamilton Road, Rosedale, MD 21237 Shiva details to follow
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BaltimoreJewishLife.com (BJL) is proud to partner with STAR-K CERTIFICATION that realizes that there is no substitute for a person’s own Rav. In an effort to offer a possible solution, it has launched its Institute of Halachah as a public service. Over the years, the agency’s Kashrus Hotline has answered generic halachic questions from kosher consumers the world over, including inquiries regarding the kosher status of foods and certified Sabbath mode appliances. The formation of a separate official division within STAR-K testifies to the need for addressing these issues. The Institute of Halachah is directed by HaRav Mordechai Frankel, under the guidance of HaRav Moshe Heinemann, STAR-K’s Rabbinic Administrator. It is an invaluable resource for a diverse array of rabbis to discuss general halachic matters, as well as gain access to source materials for shiurim and answers to congregants’ questions. Shailos for regular or Kashrus shailos may emailed or discussed using this widget.
Baltimore, MD - Mar. 23, 2026 - Launching the spring semester with enthusiasm, Women's Institute of Torah Seminary & College (WITS) kicked off its annual Career Mentorship Program. This initiative aims to forge connections between students, alumnae, and community members, strengthening career success for students. The program provides networking opportunities, career readiness skills, and offers invaluable insights into various fields, particularly as frum women. It is also a platform for alumnae to give back and empower the next generation.A big thank you to all the dedicated mentors: Sarala Tendler '16, Chani Mainstain '11, Sarah Mutterperl '14, Chevy Silberstein '11, Yakira Price '20, Oriana Kelemer '15, Yael Weiss '15, Dina Weiner, Chaya Feld...
Baltimore, MD - Mar. 23, 2026 - Attention Seven Mile Market Customers:
It has come to our attention that the Chometz version of the Frozen Gani Kishka (16oz) was mistakenly stocked on the Pesach freezer shelves for some time last week. If you purchased this item between Wednesday-Friday (3/18/26-3/20/26) please check the package you purchased to make sure it is marked as Kasher L‘Pesach. This has since been corrected and the item is stocked properly.
As always we strongly encourage customers to check ALL items purchased to make sure they are marked as Kosher for Pesach.
Wishing everyone a Chag Kasher V’Sameach!
Seven Mile Market Management
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – BJL regrets to inform the community of the petira of Mrs. Rachel Arel Mishory, a’h, wife of Dr. Mordechai Mishory, mother of Eliezer (Dassi) Mishory, and sister of Patricia, David, and Sue (Kevin).Shiva will be observed at 3211 Bancroft Road, Baltimore, Maryland 21215.Shacharis: 9:30AMMincha/Maariv: 7:05PM
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Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – (BJL) The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) and Hyundai issued an urgent stop-sale and recall in mid-March 2026 for approximately 69,000 vehicles in North America. This graphic explains the issue in detail.Please note that this applies only to the newly redesigned 2026 Palisade models.
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 11:23 AM (BJL) - Be aware of an accident on Reisterstown Road near Pomona Square that is blocking traffic.
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 11:10 AM (BJL) An accident at the intersection of Park Heights Ave & Old Court Rd. is currently being cleared, but traffic remains heavily backed up. For the next hour or so, it would be prudent to use an alternate route.
We are living through challenging days here in Isreal. The Home Front Command issues specific instructions how to ensure our physical safety. But our souls need to be protected too. How do we build a Mamad (safe room) for our souls?
I would like to share an inspiring idea I heard over Shabbat. We can think of the word Mamad as an acronym for the words: machshava (thought), maaseh (action), and dibbur (speech).
Our sages teach us that our souls find expression in three ways: in our thoughts, deeds, and speech. It is our responsibility to control these three areas and channel them in positive directions. If the news around us is overwhelming, then it’s important to enter the Mamad of the soul by strengthening ourselves and those around us with positive thoughts, actions, ...
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 9:07 AM (BJL) A tanker truck is stalled in the center lane at the traffic light at the intersection of Park Heights Ave & Old Court Rd. Traffic on Park Heights is extremely slow, as drivers must maneuver around the truck to pass through the intersection.
Baltimore, MD - Mar. 23, 2026 - BJL Traffic Alert: 8:58AM- (BJL) The Traffic Light at Reisterstown & Old Court is now operational
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 8:30AM (BJL) An accident at the intersection of Park Heights & Rogers Ave is delaying traffic in the area
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 8:17AM (BJL) The traffic light is out at the intersection of Reisterstown Rd and Old Court Rd, and a police officer is on scene directing traffic
Baltimore, MD – Mar. 23, 2026 – 7:24AM (BJL) Be aware of flashing traffic lights at the intersection of Reisterstown Rd & Slade Ave.
An Air Canada Express regional jet struck a Port Authority vehicle on the ground after landing at New York's LaGuardia Airport late Sunday night, killing two people and forcing the airport to close.
The CRJ-900 plane, which was arriving from Montreal, struck the vehicle at about 24 miles per hour shortly before midnight, according to flight tracking website Flightradar24.
Two pilots were killed in the incident, Port Authority Executive Director Kathryn Garcia said at a news briefing. More than 40 passengers, crew members and Aircraft Rescue and Firefighting (ARFF) officers were transported to the hospital, she said.
"At this time, we understand that 32 have been released, but there are also serious injuries," Garcia said. "Sadly, the two pilots are confirmed...
Baltimore, MD - Mar. 22, 2026 - We’ve just finished Purim, and now it’s time to start thinking about Pesach. One of the main parts of preparing for Pesach is kashering the kitchen.
I’m not a kashering professional—I don’t really know how to do it—but I’d like to learn. So today, I have Rabbi Tendler from Star-K here to show me how to kasher like a pro.
Jerusalem, Israel - Mar. 22, 2026 - This past Shabbos and Motzei Shabbos, ballistic missiles fired by Iran exploded directly within residential areas in both Dimona and Arad. The devastation is immense, with nearly a hundred Yidden injured. Many are seriously wounded and in a state of sakanas nefashos (danger to life). May Hashem send them a Refuah Shlama. Beyond the physical injuries, many are hospitalized for shock, suffering varying degrees of mental and physical trauma. The sheer force of the blasts has been horrific beyond human comprehension. This is compounded by the total destruction of homes and property; families have been left homeless, without clothes or the basic necessities of life.At the same time, the miracles we have witnessed are beyond understanding. That these ball...
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