This week's Parsha, B’har, underscores our relationship to the Land of Israel in very descriptive terms. Throughout the Parsha the message is clear that the Land belongs exclusively to HaShem and not to us. We are to ones to whom HaShem gave the rights to settle the Land for the purpose of building a nation that is devoted to Him.
 
This week our community lost Mrs. Rachel Canterman, a woman whose entire life was the expression of her undivided devotion to HaShem and to His Torah. Many people in our community poured their hearts to HaShem in prayer that He should grant her a recovery. There are many who prayed for her who did not even know her. Those prayer sessions were so powerful that those in attendance knew HaShem was there as well.
 
Did our prayers accomplish their intended goal? The answer is unquestionably YES.
 
But first, let us appreciate what the goal of our prayers is. For that I will draw a parallel and quickly return to this question.
 
One summer day when all the children were away at camp, I turned to my wife and suggested that we go for a ride just to spend time together. She agreed. After driving aimlessly along 95 North enjoying each other's company I suggested  that we drive to Brooklyn and visit her relatives. They will be so surprised to see us, what fun! We will eat something in Brooklyn and then head home. As we prepared to enter Staten Island we heard that there was two hour back up in both directions which meant that if we carried out our plan we would not return to Baltimore till late at night. We decided to abandon the idea and turned around and headed home. When we finally returned home we did not look at our trip as a failed endeavor - we really had a great time, enjoyed ourselves and accomplished what we had set out to do.
 
If however, our intent was to go to my nephew's wedding our disappointment would be tremendous. It would have been a complete day of futility with nothing to show for it.
 
Our Sages teach us that the intent of prayer is to connect with HaShem, to spend time in His close company. The greater our need and the greater our awareness that only He is the One Who can help us the greater our closeness will be. Anyone who attended that prayer meeting at which we recited hundreds of verses of tehillim in the hope that HaShem would send a recovery to our beloved Rachel, knows that HaShem joined us there. We were in His close company. Apparently, HaShem understood that the time for Rachel's departure had arrived. But in His kindness He reached out to us and offered us the opportunity to pray to Him. He gave us the hope that moved us to gather 30 women, many who did not even know Rachel to turn to HaShem and draw ourselves nearer to Him.
 
This prayer meeting was not in vain, we are all stronger and closer than we were before.
 
So as we are truly sad with the departure of Rachel who was a women a great devotion to HaShem we must nevertheless be grateful to her for drawing us near as well. It must be added that given that we brought HaShem into our midst there is no question that this will bring much blessing to us as well.