Jerusalem, Israel – Mar. 26, 2024  - Twenty women from the Jewish community in Great Neck, NY, recently partnered to create a special and emotional Bat Mitzvah celebration in Yerushalayim.

The United Mashadi Jewish Community Association (UMJCA) Women’s Solidarity Mission cooperated with the organization OneFamily to host a Bat Mitzvah celebration in Yerushalayim for Israeli girls who had recently lost a close relative. Chantal Belzberg spearheaded the effort to organize a heartwarming Bat Mitzvah for girls, all victims of terror, within a short timeframe.

The story of this special Bat Mitzvah celebration began with Nova survivors Eden Shmuel and Shira Cohen bringing their harrowing ordeal to the attention of Jews in the United States. Ms. Shmuel and Cohen embarked on a speaking tour in the US earlier in the year to share their personal stories of pain and resilience since the events of October 7th. The UMJCA in Great Neck, New York, was one of their stops on this tour.

Although a 40-person UMJCA women's solidarity mission had recently returned from Israel, Eden and Shira’s stories inspired a second mission for another twenty women to support Israel themselves. The tight-knit Great Neck community held an emergency fundraising campaign for Israel after October 7th, and one of the donations they made was to OneFamily.

For the past twenty-three years, OneFamily, Israel's largest organization supporting victims of terror and their families, has provided critical emotional, financial, and rehabilitative assistance to those impacted by terrorism. The numbers of people affected by terror and war have more than doubled since October 7th. In recognition of their efforts, OneFamily was recently named one of the 2024 recipients of the prestigious Genesis Prize.

"We all had chills when we heard of this idea from OneFamily, especially because our community has a group Bat Mitzvah called a 'Jamati' every year to celebrate all the Bat Mitzvah girls together as a community!" Natalie Kamali, one of the UMJCA mission leaders, stated to BJL.

A Persian term for a ‘gathering’, the largely Persian Jewish community holds a group Bat Mitzvah party each year. “So we thought - 'A Jamati for the girls of Israel?! YES!' Without hesitation, we added the Bat Mitzvah to our itinerary and it was one of the main highlights of our trip!!!" she added.

The party featured elements of a lavish Bat Mitzvah celebration, including an elegant multi-course meal with a personalized cookie for each girl, an elegant sweet table with a chocolate fountain, a professional photographer's portrait backdrop for magnets, glitter makeup, an art activity, lively dancing music by DJ Michal, speeches, and a table full of Bat Mitzvah gifts from the UMJCA group for each Bat Mitzvah celebrant.

Each of the honored Bat Mitzvah girls carries a story of personal loss due to terrorism and war. Two of the Bat Mitzvah girls' fathers were policemen killed in Sderot on October 7th. One is from Kiryat Gat from an Ethiopian background, the other family was new to Sderot with Moroccan roots. Their families have come together over the past months through tragedy.

In response to months of contending with loss and suffering, each girl experienced an evening full of love, joy, and happiness at this event.

Rabbi Benji Levy, co-founder of Israel Impact Partners and former CEO of Mosaic, added an important spiritual component to the evening. In his inspirational remarks in Hebrew and English, Rabbi Levy told the Bat Mitzvah girls, “You are the Queen Esthers of today. Your bravery comes through every day with your family and friends and in everything you do. You are the absolute heroes of our generation.”

Rabbi Levy then gathered the girls and their guests into the middle of the room and led them in the traditional Jewish blessing parents give their daughters. The room filled with emotion as the mothers put their hands on their daughters' heads and repeated the blessing, even restaurant staff appeared moved by the experience.

CEO Chantal Belzberg coordinated every detail to honor and treat the girls and to create a special opportunity for real bonding. She thanked the Great Neck Jewish Community Women’s Solidarity Mission for making this Bat Mitzvah party possible and for bringing so much Simcha and enthusiasm to the party. United and dancing together even in war and loss. Ms. Belzberg addressed the lingering question of how one finds the strength to celebrate during this challenging period, one she has dealt with professionally and personally for many years. She emphasized the power of unity and tapping into the realization that we really are one family.

"As seen throughout this Bat Mitzvah celebration, the strong bonds between Israel and Diaspora Jews are the backbone of our collective well-being," Belzberg addressed the girls in Hebrew and then translated for the UMJCA guests into English, introducing both the young women impacted by terror and new friends from UMJCA to the way the organization views its role in helping the bereaved heal and thrive.

“At OneFamily, you are allowed to hurt, to talk about the pain, to cry - everything is allowed. As in any family, we enjoy being with each other and are thankful for the special connection we have. In this family, we celebrate even when it is not easy to do so, and we always feel embraced and accepted.”

Nicole Ben Yehuda, a UMJCA representative said, “We came here to bring joy, but it also brings us much joy. It is a privilege to be with these special young women. We hope to maintain a connection and celebrate with these young women again."

Stephanie Aziz, a UMJCA participant summed up the experience for the visitors who enabled OneFamily to host the party: “To come to a nation that can pull this off beautifully, sensitively, and with the pure aim to make people happy in dark times - it’s incredible. Tonight was a highlight of our trip!”

Fellow Great Neck participant Jamie Kamali added, “At home, there is nothing we can do. We watch the news, and we're angry. We came into a war, and Israelis uplifted us. This spirit is what we needed.”