Baltimore, MD – Mar. 25, 2019 - Judge Ruchie Freier inspired over 350 people in Baltimore last night with a message of conviction and perseverance. Judge Freier detailed how an infusion of maternal wisdom, strong faith and a dose of not accepting “no” when you know you are right can propel one to accomplish great things. The talk at Ner Tamid was moderated by Avital Chizik Goldschmidt, an editor at Forward and teacher of journalism at Yeshiva University and sponsored by the Schuster family in memory of Dr. Frank F. Schuster.

Judge Freier described her personal journey from Bais Yaakov student to becoming the first Chasidic woman to hold public office in US history. Judge Freier went to law school while raising six children, started two vital community organizations and was eventually elected Judge in Brooklyn, New York, where she lives with her family. All along the way, she held firm to her beliefs and standards, and she believes that this commitment has only contributed to her success.

Judge Freier grew up in a household where she and her siblings were encouraged, but not pushed, by their hard-working parents. She stated that she was not the “smartest girl in the class” but was always questioning and doing. Judge Freier married at the age of 19 and supported her husband learning in Kollel by worked as a legal secretary. It wasn’t until the age of 30 that she decided to go to fulfil her dream of going to college and law school. She did this with her husband’s support and encouragement.

On juggling motherhood and a career, Judge Freier said that it is not a secret that women need and should get help. She cherishes her role as a mother and always prioritizes her family’s well-being. She also values her Chasidic community and found that being true to her values has made it easier for her to navigate outside of her insular community. While in law school, she would bring her children to the school and create Jewish holiday festivities for Jewish students. She would bring Hamentashen to school to share with her classmates and professors. She proudly let people know she was Chasidic and found that by doing so, she received respect and understanding in return.

Judge Freier’s journey was not always one of success. She encountered personal failures and communal stonewalling. When describing her struggles to establish a women’s Hatzalah, it become apparent that when this woman hears no, her strong faith in Hashem and in doing the right things motivates her to find a way. While she was not able to get women on Hatzalah staff in Boro Park, she helped launch Ezras Nashim, an all women EMT group (as depicted in the documentary 93 Queen). She is also one of the founders of B'Derech, an organization that supports Chassidish at-risk youth.

Participants shared that they were inspired tonight by Judge Ruchie Freier’s message of pursuing your dreams while maintaining your standards. Her own success, balancing potato kugel and a criminal court docket, demonstrates that there is no limit to what orthodox men and women can accomplish.