Baltimore, MD - July 1, 2016 - This past week local Baltimore resident Rabbi Raffi Bilek kicked off his new chesed organization, Knafayim, with a training for local summer camps on abuse prevention. BJL checked in with him to find out more about this initiative and what his future plans are.

BJL: What was the goal of the camp trainings you did?

RB: The bottom line is really the safety of our children.  The issue of child sexual abuse has been swept under the rug for a long time, but baruch Hashem our community is really starting to tackle it seriously. Training camp staff is a really important piece in making this a community a place where abuse can’t happen.  Camp can be kind of a high-risk area for this problem, but it doesn’t have to be.

BJL: What is your background in dealing with issues of abuse?

RB: I’m currently the director of the Montgomery County Abuser Intervention Program for perpetrators of intimate partner violence.  Before moving to Baltimore I was the outreach coordinator for a Jewish domestic violence and sexual abuse program in New Jersey. As part of that work I ran Debbie Fox’s Safety Kid program, the one that came to the Baltimore schools a few weeks ago, for all of New Jersey, so I am pretty familiar with the subject matter.  I also run the Baltimore Therapy Center where I do a lot of counseling around various family issues.  Though most of it is not about abuse, that’s certainly a problem I do encounter.

BJL: What has been the reaction so far to your training?

RB: I think the participants – although it was a small group – were really quite happy with it. In fact, I have post-training evaluations to prove it!  The training is not about scaring people or wagging a finger – it’s just about raising awareness and helping camps put behavioral guidelines in place to not only protect kids, but to change the environment so that, like I said, this becomes a place where a person can’t get away with trying to abuse a child.

BJL: What have the local rabbanim said?

RB: I first spoke about my plan for this training with Rabbi Heinemann, who was in favor of the idea, though I must be careful to say that he did not review the program and has not given any kind of official haskamah.  He did ask me to show it to the Vaad HaRabbanim.  My plan is really to work with the rabbanim as much as possible every step of the way.

BJL: What other services will your organization provide?

RB: Well, in addition to camp training, I am offering in-home parent trainings on the same topic of preventing sexual abuse.  As well as training on other abuse-related topics. This is all for free, by the way. I also offer education on a variety of family-related topics not related to abuse such as parenting, marriage, and dating.  Also, I am hoping to gather funding to provide low-cost marriage and family counseling for community members who can’t otherwise afford it.

BJL: Why did you start Knafayim?

RB: I felt there was a need in the community for an organization that does this work for and from within the frum community.

BJL: Thank you so much for your time.

RB: You're very welcome