[Ed. Note] Out of the respect and recognition of the impact made by longtime BJL friend and contributor, Reb Shaya Gross, z’l, we will maintain a living memoriam to Shaya through the sweet words and thoughtful insights of  his Divrei Torah. BJL readers will remember his weekly column on the Parsha and on various Torah ideas and concepts. These meaningful words will help us remember this special young man who will be sorely missed and for those who did not merit to know him, this will be the most appropriate way for them to become familiar with who he was.

In this week's Parsha, Korach argued that all Jews are holy, and therefore why did Moshe elevate himself over Klal Yisroel to be the leader. Ironically, Korach’s argument of equality is the recipe for Machlokes, jealousy, and divisiveness.

The more one believes we are all the same and that we all have the same limitless potential, the more prone we are to resentment, discord, and arguing with each other over things we perceive to be unfair. For example, ‘why did he get that position if I am just as qualified…?’

However, if we realize that we are not equal, and that we are each born into a unique family with unique personalities and that we each have our unique mission, then there is no room for Machlokes. As why should I be jealous or upset that you are smarter, wealthier, more connected, or got a ‘better’ job or position?  You need that for your mission whereas I have a completely different mission and I have the tools and personality I need to fulfill mine. The more we understand this idea, the easier it is to get along with our neighbors and to appreciate the different groups in Klal Yisroel; we all have positive contributions to the larger mosaic called Klal Yisroel. We will then be able to reach the mida of Shalom which means more than just peace. Peace means there is no fighting. Shalom is a higher level from the root word Shalaim-perfection.  Perfection means disparate forces coming together to form a cohesive complete unit.

May we all take this lesson to heart: to realize that we are all different with our own unique mission,  and to respect the other groups in Klal Yisroel for their positive contributions.