Baltimore, MD - Nov. 16, 2015 - Children with special needs are not the only ones in their families who have needs. Each sibling has his or her share of homework, trials and tribulations, and typical childhood angst. When a sibling is faced with constantly putting his needs second to the child with special needs, stresses build up, as well as feelings of guilt (why am I OK? Why am I being selfish when my brother/sister is the one who is not “typical”?)

To enable families who have children with special needs to better cope with the often overlooked needs of siblings, a few weeks ago, a special dinner and workshop in Kol Torah (Rabbi Berger's shul) was arranged by Menucha.

Menucha parents enjoyed a gourmet dinner and informative workshop on the too often overlooked topic of supporting the siblings of children who have special needs. Dr. Stephen Glicksman was brought in from the New York metropolitan area, as he has the rare duo expertise of being a developmental psychologist, and orthodox Jew who is familiar with the dynamics of Orthodox Jewish households. While this topic is relevant to all segments of the population, Orthodox Jewish homes have the added dimensions of having larger families (bli ayin hara), more homework, and the dynamics of Yomim Tovim and family simchos.
 

Dr. Stephen Glicksman has the rare duo expertise of being a developmental psychologist, and orthodox Jew who is familiar with the dynamics of Orthodox Jewish households.

The Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council provided grant funding toward the event, acknowledging the unique ability of Menucha to fill the need in the area of sibling support in the orthodox community.  Dr. Glicksman was available during the afternoon for parents to drop in and ask questions and partake in light refreshment. In the evening, dinner was served, catered by O’Fishel Caterers, and the workshop was presented.

Parent feedback to the event was positive across the board. Menucha sent a survey to the parents who participated, and all of the respondents said that the presentation was both relevant and practical, and that they would be able to incorporate some of the strategies given into the daily lives of the siblings of the child with special needs.

Mrs. Malka Waldman, Menucha’s new program coordinator oversaw all of the details that went into making this event a pleasure for all of the participants. Volunteers lead by Shiffy Gross also contributed in the success of this event. As always, Menucha thanks the Baltimore community and Ms. Cathy Lyle and the Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council for making this event possible.